Put Yourself First…Or Else


Ever feel like you aren’t getting everything you want done? Do you find yourself distracted and then feel the disappointment set in? Wish you would just get on with it already? Why can’t you simply prioritize, focus and do what is calling you?

It always seems there’s something stopping you, doesn’t it? It’s so easy to be dragged into the abyss of self-loathing when you find yourself getting sucked in by other peoples needs and wants day after day.

When will you come first?

At the Fearless Living Institute we offer something called the Fearless Mentor Program...it should be called the “Put Yourself First (or Else!)” Program!

What is this “or else” I speak of?

Or else, you will never feel proud of yourself and your life.

Or else, you will keep living on the Wheel of Fear. One minute loving yourself then hating yourself then loving yourself then….

Or else, you won’t get to that project, that goal, that dream that you secretly yearn to do.

Or else, you won’t find love, lose weight or kick your competitors butt (and yes, in spiritual truth, there is no such thing as competition but that’s easier said than believed).

There’s always something….

So you have to learn to Put Yourself First (or Else!)

Or else will happen…

I am here right now to be sure that fear doesn’t get the best of you (It’s my job. I’m a coach. I’m your coach). Suffering from the “I Put Myself Last’ syndrome does not serve you and I hate to see anyone (especially you) be stopped by excuses or time sucking distractions or just plain ol’ confusion or overwhelm. UGH!

Learning to Put Yourself First is the first step in dodging all of those dreadful “OR ELSE” things like:

  • Having the life sucked out of you by so-called friends.
  • Putting off your dream, project, goal and repeating that sad mantra “some day it will be my turn” over and over again.
  • A daily chorus of sighs and complaints about how others seems to be successful without doing a whole heckofalot of hardwork.
  • Wondering what your life COULD be like if only….sigh!

Helping you learn to put yourself first is part of what lead me to be a coach and why I continue to do this work. I was called to do this…because we need each other, because when two or more are gathered, seriously wonderful amazingly miraculous stuff happens.

That’s what I want for you…






All Around


FOR You!

All the time!!!

Procrastination sucks. Putting yourself last sucks. I am determined to show you the way out.

Take a moment to imagine a life where you’ve  mastered Putting Yourself First during the tough moments, in the tough conversations, in the tough situations What would that feel like?

Because you will never get to that dream, that project, that goal if you REFUSE to Put Yourself First.

You must or that dream, project or goal will die.

Don’t let it.

Let’s get Fearless!


By Rhonda Britten

Rhonda, voted America’s Favorite Life Coach is here to help you get unstuck. “Everyone needs Fearless Living”- Oprah Winfrey With her acclaimed method called Fearless Living, Rhonda Britten has helped thousands of people let go of indecision, gain clarity of purpose, and take life-changing risks. Her work exposes the roots of fear and gives you the tools to move beyond that insidious universal feeling of “not being good enough.” The result is unstoppable confidence and a world of unlimited possibilities.

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