Here’s Step One To Becoming Fearless

Do you want to get more fearless

Here’s Step One…

How to Get More Fearless:

Answer yes or no to the following questions:

Are you…

  1. Worried about the future?
  2. Full of guilt about the past?
  3. Ashamed of what you’ve done or what you haven’t done?
  4. Confused about what to do next?
  5. Comparing yourself to others?
  6. Doubting your decisions?
  7. Hating on your body?
  8. Disappointed in where you are in life?
  9. Overwhelmed with everything you’re supposed to do?
  10. Stuck in the past?
  11. Blaming your parents, your ex, an old boss?
  12. Wish the world was different?
  13. Anxious about what’s going to happen?
  14. Desperately trying to be perfect but failing at it?
  15. Resentful towards someone?
  16. Not trusting yourself?
  17. Judging yourself or fear others are judging you?
  18. Pretending everything is okay when it’s not?
  19. Procrastinating on an important project?
  20. Finding yourself being manipulative but hate yourself for it?

 

How many times did you answer yes?

When I first asked myself these questions, I answered yes to Every. Single. One.
I was embarrassed and feeling really bad about myself. Do you ever feel bad about yourself?

It doesn’t have to be that way. See, I have some good news.

Oh, but before I forget, I gotta tell you this. All of your YES answers above? Well, every single yes is just one way fear shows up in your life. They are what I call: Fear Responses.

Feeling guilty is a fear response. You can’t feel guilty unless you have a fear underneath it that’s driving that response.

Procrastinating is a fear response. You won’t procrastinate unless you have a fear underneath it that’s driving that response.

Perfectionism is, you guessed it, a fear response. You won’t be obsessed with perfection and control unless you are afraid something bad will happen if you aren’t that way.

See, all of your YES answers just point to how you respond to fear. The hidden, insidious, invisible fear that silently tries to run your life is what determines your fear responses.

Here’s the good news: It’s not your fault. You aren’t guilty or stupid or lazy. You aren’t a bad person or falling behind. You’ve just bought into your fear responses. Until now, you didn’t know fear was driving all of those feelings, all of those thoughts. Don’t worry…I’m going to show you how to beat fear at its own game.

See, It doesn’t have to be this way. You CAN change how you respond to fear. And in turn, change your results. I promise.

Step One: You Must Admit You Have Fear Before You Can Transform Fear.

Keep track of your Fear Responses every day.

Be Warned: Your Fear Responses are not your core fear. You have a deeper, darker core fear than any of those Fear Responses. And that core fear has been running the show.

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By Rhonda Britten

Rhonda, voted America’s Favorite Life Coach is here to help you get unstuck. “Everyone needs Fearless Living”- Oprah Winfrey With her acclaimed method called Fearless Living, Rhonda Britten has helped thousands of people let go of indecision, gain clarity of purpose, and take life-changing risks. Her work exposes the roots of fear and gives you the tools to move beyond that insidious universal feeling of “not being good enough.” The result is unstoppable confidence and a world of unlimited possibilities.

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