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Tired of your rut? Do you get unstuck in one area just to get stuck in another? That’s because you aren’t facing the deeper issues that are keeping you bogged down! I’ll help you get to the bottom of this – and never get sucked into a rut again!

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The role that excuses, disconnecting, people-pleasing and perfection play in your rut

How to start getting your needs met by loved ones, co-workers and friends

How to find clarity and focus in the midst of indecision

How to start trusting yourself right now to take smart, powerful action

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Ruts happen to us all – even me. Life gets rolling like a car on the highway, and you just keep riding along. When you realize you’re in a rut, you ask yourself, “Hey, when did I stop driving?”

When you’re in a rut, every day seems like the next. You’ve either got way too much to do – or not enough (and way too much time in front of the TV).

Your heart just isn’t “in it” anymore. Work, relationships, hobbies – nothing gets your heart racing like it used to. That, my friends, is a rut. It’s a lack of passion, curiosity, and intent in your life.


  • Feel like you’re just going through the motions every day
  • Have stopped enjoying your hobbies – or even given them up altogether
  • Avoid trying new things because “what’s the point?”
  • Keep having the same problems over and over but never seem to fix them
  • Lost your passion for life somewhere along the way
  • Remember when you WEREN’T THIS WAY!


These 30 concepts are the “toolkit” I go back to again and again to keep living my life fearlessly. In these modules, I’ll touch on each of your most pressing issues, not just on the surface, but WHY you’re struggling deep down inside and show you the way out.



Honest Reviews

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I never imagined 30 days ago how different I would be today! 30 days ago, I was so low, and stuck. I felt alone and lost. I barely knew myself so how could I possibly be true to myself? Now I’ve gained the tools to find myself and become true to myself, I have goals to move forward, I have amazing support through our facebook group, and I have joy … JOY! I commit to continuing this journey as I know there is so much more to come for me and if I can shift this much in 30 days, what can I do in a year, or two, or five years? How exciting a thought is that? Rhonda, thank you for sharing you and your gifts with me! You are an angel here on earth and you have made an incredible difference!
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This might be the most outstanding learning from this course. I see now that if I am rejected it is not personal, just that someone disagrees with my philosophies – and the rejection means that I am staying true to me – yea – as opposed to mutating myself to please everyone else. An unbelievable eye opener.

My relationships started to change too. Last summer I broke off a 5 year (very unhealthy, unloving) relationship. In it I had mutated to get love, which never came. The result was that my partner and I had to sell a co-owned home around the holidays. I was able to nurture myself thru that difficult and stressful process. As Rhonda Taught me: “take care of yourself, be gentle with yourself.”
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I thought it would feel like a diet… but it wasn’t. I looked forward to the morning videos and the lift they gave my whole day. I’m glad to have the recordings to review too. It was wonderful going through the class with other people and knowing I wasn’t alone.
I was dealing with an IRS levy that was just lifted. This meant funds were low but I thought, heck, I am in a hole now I can’t do anything but improve my situation. I needed a kick in the butt to tell you the truth. I needed a change and you appeared in my email inbox.

What made me ponder this a day or two was, would I have the TIME and the COMMITment to start and complete this course. Over 30 days … and at 8 am? I am NOT a morning person by any stretch of the imagination. So even with money being scarce, time and commitment being in question, I signed up and the rest is history. I only missed one morning session as I slept through the alarm that morning! I committed day one and stayed in high gear all month. And I was an active daily participant in the FB community.
testimonial deborah moore
The thing that almost kept me from doing this course was fear. At times it felt like a risk and sometimes a die. But I loved the 30 days of everyday support. The biggest change I noticed was how I felt better about myself. I was more aware of myself, and others. At times I could breath easier, and sometimes felt more fear come up. But I stayed with it because I had decided to love me, be me, and work through the different ways it kept me stuck.

Other things I really liked was how it allowed me to connect with other people who were also part of Change Your Life in 30 Days. At first I didn’t talk much on the facebook group, then I did start posting. That was a huge step for me. There was an awareness that started opening up of how much I had taken on a perception of myself that was a result of what others in my life had told me I was, or should be. Perceptions and beliefs that my worth was less because I felt that my body was less than it ought to be, that breast size equals worth. You helped me realize these beliefs are not true. Not at all.

I’m now more fully breaking through to live and be my truth. With me choosing it to be, as it was meant to be. As always Rhonda, thank you for loving yourself. For knowing your purpose and trusting it. Because you have chosen to be you, so many lives have been joyfully (because that is how you share it) blessed. We are choosing to be free, and it ripples out. Yay!
testimonial midge woods
Take away from the class is YES!!! My life is more available to me today than 30 days ago. Change Your Life in 30 Days has given me all the tools to transcend my past and to create my future. Most important is this moment, every moment, everyday I am living fearlessly creating my life. I have downloaded all the CYL sessions. That was a commitment to know I have a toolbox for life.
testimonial kellie hassler
WOW! What has NOT changed!!! My new fearless things since Change Your Life in 30 Days are the following: being a part of a dance group (1st time ever), got on the community group last night but I did not know what to do with it after I got in there (1st time ever). YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! To every word spoken in this course. Sending love and deep gratitude to this new awakening. Thank you Rhonda for all you do!!
How has my life shifted over the past 30 days? Oh wow …ave a new-found certainty about who I am, what I want, and all that old self-doubt is dissipating so quickly I’m forgetting how I managed to do it! Thank you Rhonda, and all my fearless family!!!!!
testimonial dave moore
Yesterday I spent hours reflecting on this course and doing the lists. What an amazing day. I see my insights are changing dramatically, but so is my LIFE. I want to keep going.
Lisa Cunnard
Just wanted to thank you for an informative Change Your Life in 30 Days. At the beginning of the class I did not have a clue how to apply the principles of Fearless Living to my life let alone change it in 30 days and now it is so clear!! Please tell every person that you meet that is physically challenged in some way that they too can apply these principles because you know someone that did it!!
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I have to tell you I have found so much more time in my day – so much more professional and personal productivity using the tools you have given throughout this course. The check in on where I have control and how I am doing is amazing. I am so excited about how empowering it is for me in the areas I have struggled – just amazing. THANK YOU!
Sarah Spell CYL Testimonial
I truly, fully believe that my darkest days are behind me. Will difficulties come? Yes. The difference is that now I have the tools that work and the confidence to use them. I have support and know how to ask for it. This deep knowledge – beyond intellectual knowing – this is heaven.
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This has been the power powerful 30 days of choosing ME! It’s been a new beginning for me and as these calls come to a close, I see a new beginning for me to continue changing my life in so many fabulous, meaningful and life affirming ways. So grateful to and for you Rhonda Britten!
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This course is more than a laser beam, it’s like open heart surgery for me! You have given me a new lease on life. The veil has been lifted; my eyes can now see me instead of the distortion I had come to believe. Thank you for the strength and insight you have given me. I have been waiting so long to open this gift and now I am delicately removing the wrapping and discovering the me God created. This is exactly what I needed. I am so grateful.
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Through this program, I am coming back to slowly to love myself more. What a gift I have now. My losses have given me this opportunity to be blessed now with the insight that everything I need can be filtered by slowing down and looking inward at my true self. I am willing to court this paradigm, allowing my intention, commitment, contentment to produce effects which will align my purpose, passion and needs. This is course is opening my eyes. Thank you Rhonda.
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Daily Videos

Every day, you’ll experience the love and acceptance people say I’m famous for!

Transcripts of the Entire Course

No matter if you’re a visual or audio leaner – I’ve got you covered!

Daily Fearbuster Exercise Worksheets

These worksheets will help you integrate everything you’re learning into your daily life.

Community Support

You’re not alone – and my Change Your Life in 30 Days Community will prove it! Chat with other members and get one-on-one with me and my coaches who will be there answering your questions.

Daily Audio mp3s

Listen in the car or at the gym so you stay on track no matter how busy you are!

Daily Lessons

Every morning, you’ll wake up to an email with the day’s lesson.

Daily Wrap-Up Emails

At the end of each day, I’ll send you a wrap-up email to help you debrief and anchor your day’s lesson.

Daily Support Reminders

You’ll get two encouraging reminders throughout the day (your choice: text or email) to help you stay focused and on track.


Tired of your rut? Do you get unstuck in one area just to get stuck in another? That’s because you aren’t facing the deeper issues that are keeping you bogged down! I’ll help you get to the bottom of this – and never get sucked into a rut again!

Register now!
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Who is this Course for?
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If you find yourself stuck in a rut of indecision, or can’t seem to put any action behind your dreams, or secretly want someone else to solve your problems, Change Your Life in 30 Days is the perfect solution. It’s designed to take away the uncertainty that creeps up on you when life is throwing slings your way. And don’t worry, I will guide you with a gentle hand and compassionate style while giving you the full court press putting you into action almost immediately. Folks have changed their life after the first class.
How do I know this will solve my (problem)?
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This comes down to trust doesn’t it? If you are still reading this page, I bet you trust me and want me to convince you that I am trustworthy. I hope I’ve done that with the honest reviews on this page and scattered throughout the website plus the videos sharing who I am and my journey. But past that, this is the first decision you have to make on your own. You have to make the decision to trust me to lead you out of your rut. Thousands of others have yet this decision is yours and yours alone.
Do I have to do 30 days in a row? What if I miss a day?
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No problem. There’s actually no such thing as getting behind because you’re in charge of the pace. Even though the intention of this Course is 30 tools over 30 days, we recognize that just like building your physical muscles, you may need a day or two of rest and integration during the next 30 days. If you need it, take it and then, jump back in. The more you stay focused on practicing each tool, the more you’ll get out of the Course. So go ahead, take 33 days or even 40 days…just keep going no matter what.
Can I take a break if I need to?
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Of course. A program is no good if you are overwhelmed and find yourself beating yourself up. In every email, there will be a link called “Stop. I need a break” that will stop the sequence of emails at any time. Just click on the link called “Start Me Up. I’m ready to go” in any of the emails to start the sequence right where you left off. Just remember, when you stop the emails, you won’t have your daily reminders to keep you focused on moving your life forward.

Can I share this program with a family member?
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It’s important that each person who’s enrolled in the Change Your Life in 30 Days program makes a conscious decision to join and invest in their own growth. Feel free to share your results with the people you love but encourage them to invest in themselves. There is nothing that can replace a decision that says “YES I am ready to change” like a sign up for a class that can truly make a difference.
What do I get with the coaching emails?
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Each day you will receive an inspirational email with the link to the video of the day. It’s important to download the audio mp3 into your library so you can listen over and over again. Plus, you will get your “Fearbuster Exercise™ of the Day” that helps you integrate each day’s lesson. And don’t forget your daily inspirational text messages or emails (delivery of your choice) so you can stay focused on the lesson each day. We’ve thought of everything to keep you on track. No procrastination or slipping away in this Course.

Should I tell my therapist I'm doing this program?
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If that supports you, sure. More therapists refer clients to me than coaches, speaker and authors combined. They know my stuff works, and they have your best interest at heart. So yes, please do. I have clients who actually share their daily homework with their therapists. I say, share away. The more support you have on your journey, the better.

Why should I use this program and not someone else’s?
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I could tell you a bunch of amazing things about myself like I overcame a twenty year horror story of my own or how I’ve met Oprah, twice, or I could tell you about the women’s lives I’ve changed in the Starting Over house that aired every day for three years on NBC. But come on, that isn’t important, right? It doesn’t matter really if Good Housekeeping as done a profile on me or I have been on The Today Show and blah blah blah, or my gosh darn Emmy win. What does matter is that you’re still reading this. You want me to convince you to join my program. But I’m not going to. YOU have to decide this one. Plus, there’s an “It’s Gonna Work” 7 Day Guarantee or you get all your money back. All you have to do is show me you tried by turning in your completed Fearbuster Exercise™. So frankly, you got nothing to lose but that darn ol’ fear of yours.

What’s at risk if I don’t order right now?
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Your future. Your confidence. Your self-esteem. Let’s face it, you wouldn’t be here if this problem hasn’t been going on for a while so how long do you want it to last? This is what I true: I believe in you. And you have to decide to believe that I can get you to the other side. I’ve been coaching for over two decades and have thousands of people raising their hand saying ”this works.” So what’s at risk if you don’t? What’s at risk is your problem is just going to get bigger, and you’re gonna feel like you are drowning in it. Don’t go there. Grab my hand. Let’s do this.

What is intimidating about doing what you’re asking me to do?
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First thing that should scare the pants off you is that it is 30 days. 30 days of lessons. 30 days of growing. 30 days of action. That is intimidating for so many people because they haven’t ever really done one thing for themselves for 30 days. But you know what I’m about to say: Change can’t happen unless you invest in yourself for a long enough period of time for it to take hold. So yes, 30 days can seem like an eternity but that’s why ultimately you take the Course at your own pace plus you have the coaches support and the community group and me right here. You won’t be alone so you won’t feel alone. We’ve got you.

How can you remove the intimidation for me?
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This is why support is so important to me. I know what it’s like to be out there on your own swimming in deep water and trying to get to shore. I lived that way for 20 years, so I get it. I do. That’s why I send you daily reminders – so you stay focused – and why you watch the video or listen to the audio each day and grab the lesson of the day and ask questions. You don’t have to go a day without support. And don’t forget…what does all the support add up to? Integrating these new tools into your life. They won’t do you any good if you can’t use them every day. I would rather save my breath than waste your time so if I am teaching it, it’s for a reason.

What happens when I order (list the steps)?
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Once you order, you will receive a Welcome email outlining the things that will be delivered to your inbox on a daily basis, seven days a week plus that email will ask you to decide how you’d like to get your inspirational daily reminders: SMS or email. It’s your choice. The daily emails officially begin on the day you sign up for the Course.

How are the materials delivered?
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Each day you will receive an email delivered right to your inbox with links to the Video of the day because we know how important it is to have everything delivered right to your inbox. But let’s not forget about the daily inspiration text messages or emails. You’ll have a choice when the Course starts to choose whether you want to receive them by SMS or Email. Either way, they’ll be delivered to you twice during the day to keep you focused. Then, you’ll receive your Wrap-Up Email to help you debrief the day. For your convenience, everything is inside the Course Learning Center that you can visit 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to watch the day’s video, download an audio, grab the Fearbuster Exercise™ and anything else you need. Don’t forget, inside each Module is a place to ask your questions. We are here for you every step of the way.

How long do I have access to stuff?
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Forever. I encourage you to download each day’s audio to your computer, so you have it handy to upload to the cloud or directly to your smartphone or tablet.

Can I talk with someone before ordering, if so how?
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Sure. Call the office anytime. You’ll find our Customer Happiness Team ready and waiting to support you with any and all of your questions. Because our team has access to the Courses we offer, they know this Course inside and out. You can ask them anything.

How much time will I have to invest?
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If you watch the video or listen to the audio each day, that’s a 30-minute investment. Plus a few minutes reading your daily inspirations and email reminders. Some days you will probably want to write some things down on your Daily Worksheets. How long you spend is up to you.

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