Love Yourself

Date Published: Dec 12, 2017

It is the hardest thing to figure out.

It is the hardest thing to do.

And it is the thing you must do.

I ignored it for years. I would laugh it off telling myself, “Of course I do.” But the way I lived my life proved I didn’t.

What am I talking about?

The elusive act of loving yourself.

(Oh it sounds so corny.)

Love yourself. Love yourself. Love yourself.

What the heck does it even mean?

(It’s more than a bubble bath.)

When it gets down to it, every decision, every choice you make is either motivated by fear or inspired by love.

Fear or love. That’s it.

Every decision. Every choice. You Make.


This is the trick:

If you don’t love (respect, honor, cherish) yourself, you will never truly believe you are worth loving.

If you do love yourself, you will feel loved by the world.

Love is an inside game. And it’s the only game that must be played because the LOVE game affects ALL THE OTHER GAMES you want to play.

Love impacts your ability to receive money.

Love impacts your ability to speak up for yourself.

Love impacts your ability to be motivated and inspired.

Love impacts every single second of your entire life.

If you loved yourself more how would your choices be different?

Think of all the areas of your life:










? …

Just think about it…

Ask yourself as many times as you can over the next 24 hours: if I loved myself what would I be doing right now? If I loved myself, how would I be treating myself right now?

Go on. Ask yourself.

Are you ready to figure out this illusive self-love thing? No, I mean, really.

Tomorrow I will be telling you more about what I have in mind to help you master this whole self-love thing.

It’s fear or love.

And you are worth loving.

By Rhonda Britten

Rhonda, voted America’s Favorite Life Coach is here to help you get unstuck. “Everyone needs Fearless Living”- Oprah Winfrey With her acclaimed method called Fearless Living, Rhonda Britten has helped thousands of people let go of indecision, gain clarity of purpose, and take life-changing risks. Her work exposes the roots of fear and gives you the tools to move beyond that insidious universal feeling of “not being good enough.” The result is unstoppable confidence and a world of unlimited possibilities.

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