Charis Santillie
Graduated 2020
San Francisco Bay Area, CA

Specializes In

I specialize in channeling your fiery ambition inward to ignite your feelings of true fulfillment. My clients are high-achievers who fall into the trap of taking care of everything and everyone before taking care of their own needs. We walk a path together to pull your innate strength forward with a power of being that puts you in control of your life. Our work is focused on increasing your inner joy, giving you a greater sense of well-being, and providing you with more peace and a higher sense of wisdom.

Coach Profile

Picture this, You're leading a hiking trip that you've thoroughly prepared for. You've done your research. You have your destination. You have your map. You planned for the weather. You have all the supplies. You are ready for anything that may come your way. A few miles in, a boulder blocks your path. You charge right up and over it. Later on you come across a flooded section in a valley. No problem; you are able to leap all the way over to the other side. You are strong and resilient. Nothing can stop you. The sun rises and sets again and again as you continue along your journey. You don't have much time to slow down and watch; you have to stay focused on your goal. You finally reach your destination and you are truly stunned, but this isn't the stunned feeling you expected. For some reason you aren't able to enjoy the view. You did everything right. What now? As you stand there, you realize that the pack you've been carrying somehow got heavier along the way. In the spirit of charging down the path to your destination you have inadvertently taken on other people's loads. As heavy as it is, a voice inside won't let you set it down. "Maybe you'll need something, you'd better keep it all and keep it close." Then you become aware of just how exhausted and burnt out you are, but you can't let anyone notice; you are convinced that a strong leader must always bear their own burden.

Can you relate to any of this? I sure can.

I was born with ambition. My parents were entrepreneurs and I pushed myself to be High-School Valedictorian, Class President and "Most Likely to Succeed". The summer I turned 19, we celebrated my Dad's 50th birthday with a hot air balloon ride. A crash-landing left him with a broken neck, me with a broken heart, and my Mom as an alcoholic. Fast-forward 19 years when I met Rhonda Britten, founder of Fearless Living. My relentless ambition had supported me to become a successful entrepreneur. While my parents' traumas still lingered in me, ironically, it was my own private paralysis and overachiever addiction that were actually ruling my life. My work with Rhonda helped me to peel back my protective layers. I learned to not only trust myself, but I finally found the path to my inner peace, how to stick with it & how to show the way for others.

Now it's your turn. You can have your own breakthrough too. Ready to take that load off your shoulders?

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Graduate of

  • Fearless Living Training Program
  • Change Your Life in 30 Days
  • Create A Year That Matters
  • Confidence Week
  • Fearless Foundation Workshop (FFW)
  • Fearless Conversations Workshop (FCW)
  • Fearless Spirit Workshop
  • Starting Over Intensive
  • Business in a Box